My daughter has been to thirteen countries, one less than the number of years she has been on planet earth. (Soon it will be 14.) She has held a malnourished baby, eaten plantains and groundnut stew and a crepe on the Champs-Élysées, she has ridden a donkey in Puerto Plata in the Dominican Republic and she has played in snow on Mt Hut in New Zealand. She has helped dress the wounds of the poorest of poor and made s'mores with local West Africans. She has patted a crocodile (and then eaten it), stood in awe of the mighty Stonehenge and on the precipice of the Grand Canyon. She can speak French. She has thrown up on a Qantas plane and in the toilets of a Denny's Restaurant in Anaheim under the shadow of the rollercoasters of Disneyland. She has seen dolphins leaping in there natural habitat and has spent months at sea. She can put on a lifejacket faster than you can say the word. She has been on an African safari and seen most of the "big five" in the wild as well as black bears frolicking in the fields of Yosemite National Park. She has said goodbye to hundreds of people in her short life and welcomed just as many. She has had more vaccinations than I can count and is on her third passport. She is resilient and strong, my daughter. She is compassionate and brave.
Sometimes a thought creeps into my mind. What am I taking her away from? She is missing out on grandparents, cousins, aunts and uncles, Maccas, school socials, fetes, elective subjects, sports carnivals and the magical beauty of our home state. She has never met two of her cousins. She doesn't know what it's like to be cold anymore and she doesn't celebrate ANZAC day. She can't remember what Cheezles are and she thinks taking malaria meds is normal for a "white kid"! Most of the year she can't got to the park and feel soft grass underfoot, inhale the scent flowers, toss autumn leaves and just run! She can't get a part time job, participate in weekend sports or begin to think about learning to drive like other kids her age. Her accent is no longer recognisable as Australian. She doesn't even know who the Prime Minister of Australia is....
But then I think, "who are you kidding"? She is unbelievably happy and content and is growing into a generous and kind women who was given the character trait of "Encourager" at the Academy End of Year Celebration. She is beautiful on the inside and the out. She goes to an amazing school where the teachers care intimately abut the wellbeing of each and every student and their Christian walk and she is being raised in a diverse community that represents over 40 nations. She has amazing friends and mentors and her faith in God is growing daily as she witnesses miracles first hand.
We don't have a lot of money and we don't have much stuff. She doesn't get a lot of takeaway of wear the latest fashions but she is living a life of great abundance. She is richer in so many ways that other kids her age can only ever hope to be!
One of the biggest blessing of life on board for Jessica is the AFM Youth. Throughout the years many dedicated young people have given up their evenings and weekends to mentor and lead our youth in the most creative ways imaginable. They are a huge example of Christ and go above and beyond what is expected of a youth leader. This year has been no exception and thanks to one of the youth leaders who also has some amazing photography skills, please enjoy a year in youth in the Congo has been captured brilliantly. I think you can tell by the smile on Jessica's face that she is blessed!
A day at the beach on the coast of the Republic of the Congo. |
Jess and her Liberian/American bestie, Deborah. |
Fun and quite, reflective times. |
Looking beautiful and certainly NOT dressed for the beach, Jess at the white elephant gift giving and formal dinner. |
White elephant gifts. |
Water wars on deck 8 in the Port of Congo. |
Ask the youth what the highlight of the year in youth would be and you would hear a chorus of "The Campout weekend"!! Jess captured by fellow youth, Hannah. |
Jess and her favourite youth leader, Elizabeth who we bid fond farewell a few weeks ago. |
Jess and youth leader, Nicole. |
Nicole checking out Jessica's sunburn! |
Putting up the tents, a great life skill for a Third Culture Kid! |
Jess and the poor croc the kids ate after the leaders cooked it on the open fire. Apparently it tasted like chicken! |
Playing games with the kids staying at the Hope Centre. some who are patients and some who are children or siblings of patients. |
I think what you all do is amazing and Jessica is going to be and is already a well rounded young woman. Sure there are some things she is missing but what she has gained and is experiencing is something that many will never get to in their life time:) Loved seeing these photos of Jess they are beautiful. Love to all of you. Catherine xx
ReplyDeleteThanks Mate!!!! Miss you!
Deletegreat blog - you are an amazing writer and capture things so beautifully!
ReplyDeleteThanks for your kind words Sharon!
ReplyDeleteA beautifully written post about a truly amazing girl!
ReplyDeleteThanks Sarah! That means a lot coming form someone as eloquent as yourself. You are a pretty amazing teacher and I look forward to you mentoring Jess next year!
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